poll - how do i find a woman who wont just try i can't just change for everyone over and over

you still wear diapers?

I don't try to change people, I never have I usually end up with people trying to change me into what they want :-/

Just ignore her efforts to change you and do what you want to do. Tell her she's going to have to deal with it if she wants you to be a part of your life.