completely void of kink in here today I thought we had a breakthrough last weekend. We woke up both feeling a bit randy and so we got into our most recent favorite position. her lying on her side and me on my knees inbetween her legs. I like this because it allows me to use her top leg as a lever and move her anywhere my little heart desires over my dick. anyway after she had an O she ASKED ME to put it in her back door. This is odd for her since I am always the one to ask and the answer is usually no. Using only the natural lube from her O I slowly inserted my cock into her 2nd love hole and (drumroll) she loved it! she said this time it didn't hurt at all (YAY) She quickly had yet another loud orgasm which took me right over the edge to my very blissfull orgasm. As for the breakthough ahh nope, I went for it again last night and she was willing but I was cut short because it hurt her too much :( does this happen to other ladies where it feels great one time and not the next?

Congratulations on the progress! That's wonderful. Yes, I have had a lot of anal sex and really enjoy it, but sometimes, I am surprised to find that it hurts. I think it has to do with how relaxed I am, (or am not) and also positioning. A couple of weeks ago, we had to stop because it really hurt, last night, it was fabulous. (which is normal for me.) *shrugs* Don't get discouraged.

Actually it does, for me. And I have no idea why really. Sometimes it feels soooooo good, and sometimes it's a resounding "nope, not gonna happen!" And btw, thanks for bringing the kink convo back!

thank you for your input and you're welcum :)

Funny thing about women... our bodies change A LOT throughout our monthly hormonal cycle. Our breasts and waistlines shrink and swell etc. Ya just never know. My guy is well endowed and there are times when every (vaginal) position just feels awesome, and times when he's bottoming out and hurting me all over the place (we haven't tried anal). If I was smart, I'd keep track so I knew what to expect!

Good point Goldi, I have never tracked my reactions either. I wonder if you're right about the time-in-the-cycle thing. It controls everything else in me, that's for sure!